»Love is an intense feeling of deep affection for someone. «
That “someone” we seek our entire life. True love. Soul-mate. We desperately want to have somebody beside us. Someone who will love us even if we have to change for them. First smaller changes, then later enormous changes.
But the truth is, either you may like it or not, that “someone” should be me. I have to love and appreciate myself first so no one would ever have me just half-hearted. And when I love myself strong enough, I attract the right people in my life. Energy attracts energy. Alike attracts alike. And then that “someone” will love me unconditionally, without bigger compromises and without wishing to change me. If I want to change myself to my even better version, I will do it by myself, spontaneously.
Of course, couples fight and argue. That’s normal. Each human being is different. We see the world differently. But couples, the ones who love each other unconditionally, also make up and live in a peaceful harmony.
My advice to you is: learn how to love yourself and do it strongly, and then you’ll meet your soulmate. When you are both ready and when the time is right.
And in case no one told you today:
You are beautiful. You are a strong person. And you’re enough!
With love,
Evelyn
